“Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone there to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage.”—~Ralph Waldo Emerson (via brandi-d119)
That is what I meant. You're chiding "boys, men, and the entire male species", when it is only really the first of the three that cares only for themselves, above their partner's happiness/pleasure. It is the mark of immaturity to care solely for yourself, the boys. I'm not criticizing you for caring solely about pleasure, i'm criticizing your choice in partners.
Ah yes, I understand now, thank you for your clarification. And yes, I think my choice in partners lately have just bored me hehe.
In response to "Boys, men, the male species in general": Your problem is, you're only dating the former; it's the mark of immaturity to just care about personal pleasure.
What do you mean by “only dating the former” ? and I never said I only care about personal pleasure. I’m just saying that guys usually only expect the “pleasure” for themselves and do not give the same amount or any back. Sorry if that was unclear for you.
I honestly cannot remember the last time my parents ever agreed with my political opinions. Yes, they are democrats. And yes I am a democrat. But they always have to fucking play devils advocate. No matter what. I can hear them one day say that they completely support tax breaks for the middle class but when I say I support it, they will take the other side! This has been happening for as long as I can remember. And not just with politics. With every single situation I come across. Then they will ask me why I am so damn defensive? Are you kidding me? All my life I have had to constantly defend my opinions and argue them to you and you ask me why I am such a defensive person? Hmm yeah I wonder why.